Welcoming Families From Around the World
- About 195 different countries exist in the world today
- According to the U.S. census bureau, the United States’ population includes individuals and families from 150 different countries.
Scenario:
You are working in an early childhood setting of your choice—a hospital, a child care center, a social service agency. You receive word that the child of a family who has recently emigrated from a country you know nothing about will join your group soon. You want to prepare yourself to welcome the child and her family. Luckily, you are enrolled in a course about diversity and have learned that in order to support families who have immigrated you need to know more than surface facts about their country of origin.
Sri Lanka is the country of origin of "my" family.
Country in South Asia
Five ways in which you will prepare yourself to be culturally responsive towards this family
1. I would learn about the culture and about the family roles.
2. I would learn some basic words such a "hello, how are you, goodbye, friend, play", and other words that will help me communicate with this family just incase they are not fluent in the English language.
3. I would go to my local public library and get books about Sri Lanka and also books in their language.
5. I would also have baby dolls and other dress up clothes for the child to wear.
- A brief statement describing in what ways you hope that these preparations will benefit both you and the family
I would hope that these preparations would benefit both myself and the family in the ways that they will help them feel welcome and part of the classroom family. It would also help us to communicate with each other and help begin building a partnership.
Social and family life
Everyday life for Sri Lankans
Parents and children
In Sri Lanka, a family should have its own household which, at least symbolically, is identified with cooking. A wife will cook for her husband and children, even when living in the same house as other family members.
While any public show of affection is not well received amongst adults, children are highly adored and everyone, both men and women take care of them and are affectionate with them.
Traditionally, infants are kept with their mothers, although when growing older, fathers pay more attention to boys and mothers, to girls. Even if Sri Lankans like to have male children, they prefer that their first child would be a girl, so that she can help and be a good influence on younger siblings.
The ultimate authority in the family is the oldest male member of a household, whether that is the father, husband, brother, or son, and corporal punishment is common towards younger boys.
As children grow, they are taught to develop a feeling combining shyness, shame, modesty and fear. This feeling is taught both within the family and the school. As a consequence, Sri Lankans tend to be calm and not loud when speaking (except for merchants) and when greeting others, it usually is with a smile more than with words (Justlanded.com).
Languages of Sri Lanka. Several languages are spoken in Sri Lanka within the Indo-Aryan, Dravidianand Austronesian families. Sri Lanka accords official status to Sinhalese and Tamil. The languages spoken on the island nation are deeply influenced by the languages of neighbouring India, the Maldives and Malaysia (Wikipedia.org).
References
https://www.justlanded.com/english/Sri-Lanka/Sri-Lanka.../Social-and-family-life
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Languages_of_Sri_Lanka
Reyna,
ReplyDeleteThe five preparations are great ideas and I feel that my preparations need edited now. I never thought about toys, books, or posters. I appreciate your insights, because they always help me to open my eyes and think broader.
Thank you,
Amanda
Reyna,
ReplyDeleteI agree with Amanda your ideas are awesome. The materials you mentioned are definitely an eye opener and will benefit the children involvement in the classroom setting.
Thank you for your post, it was great!
Bea
Reyna,
ReplyDeleteThanks for your suggestions on getting to know a new incoming family. I had not thought about learning some of the language. This is a great idea in representing to the family that you have put in some effort to get to know them and where they come from. I also believe it shows a sign of respect and that you are wanting to welcome them for who they are. Thanks for the ideas.
Thank you Darci. Many children feel comfortable when they hear familiar words, especially the shy ones or if they are having a hard time with separation anxiety. It has been very beneficial for me to have used simple words or phrases in the child's or family's language. It makes them feel welcomed and comfortable.
DeleteReyna
I love the idea of getting baby dolls and dress up clothes that are authentic to the new child's country of origin. That will really send the message that you are interested in the family and their culture and beliefs. It will also make the child feel more at home. Anything an educator can do to support a child's culture is important for self-esteem and self-identity. Great blog post!
ReplyDeleteReyna,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing such a great post. It is a great idea to utilize community resources to incorporate culturally appropriate materials in the classroom setting. I also think it is a great idea to familiarize yourself with conversational words, especially greetings in the family's language.
Again, great post!
Priscilla
Hi Reyna,
ReplyDeleteThat is so interesting how families and school teach children to be shy, shameful, fear, and modesty which cause them to be soft spoken. This was very insightful.
Great post!
Kamikka
Hi Reyna,
ReplyDeleteLearning a few words in their language and studying about their culture through literature are two things we both mentioned that would help a new family from another country feel more welcome. I definitely agree that utilizing community resources is a great way to learn more about other cultures and get aquainted with the children in your classroom.